Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Contending? or Contentious?

A collision happened in the early church in Antioch of Syria. It's a collision that has happened time and time again between people who disagree. In that case (Gal. 2:11) two of the most outstanding apostles, Peter and Paul, did battle. Paul states, "But when Peter was come to Antioch, I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed." In doing so Paul was entering on dangerous territory because many others in history had tried to do battle with their fellows, only to fail. Proverbs 26:21 reminds us that "as charcoal is to burning coals, and wood to fire, so is a contentious man to kindle strife." Those “who stir up dissension among brothers” (Proverbs 6:19) are on the same list of things the Lord hates. Contentious hearts look for things to criticize and for opportunities to tear down a person, program, or idea. They destroy the essential commodities of happy and productive relationships, i.e. trust, thinking the best of others, and loving attitudes. It’s no wonder that Paul warned the Christians in Galatia about the danger of this kind of talk. He wrote, “If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other” (Galatians 5:15). We need to watch our attitudes with others. But Paul was doing just that and he entered into battle in order to restore Peter. Peter's compromise needed rebuke and Paul gave it. God is at work, even in the most trying circumstances; what could have been a tragedy, He used for His glory and for the strengthening of His church. By this Paul was our example of his exhortation in Galatians 6:1, "Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness, considering theyself, lest thou also be tempted."

2 comments:

Sandy said...

Thank you for this post. It's so easy to want to restore others, but, as you remind me, we have to be "spiritual" first. I see that as minding our attitudes. In counseling, I know that if my attitude is not one of love, my clients will react strongly to me and never hear the message.

Eph. 4:25 tells us to put off lying to one another, but then completes the instruction by telling us to let no corrupt word come out of our mouths but only that which is good for edification. So we are to speak the truth but in kindness and with no malice. easier said than done at times! Thanks again!

Anonymous said...

It has always been difficult for me to confront anyone, mainly because I know how weak I am. I read a book called,"Caring Enough to Confront", and it made me realize that if we really care for someone, we will be willing to confront them; in love. Ruth